Author Archives: Liesel


Feeling not enough

Written by liesel on November 8, 2023

Do you ever feel like you’re not enough? You’re not alone. If you’ve been with me a little while you know my road to being happily married (for 20 years this month!) did not start out easily. My relationship history is messy. Over and over, I gave up my sense of self to morph into […]


Impact of Early Beliefs on Your Love Life

Written by liesel on August 11, 2022

A story of how your early beliefs can impact your love life… Books clutched to her chest, shoulders rolled forward, 13 year Lisa walks down the crowded hallway to her locker. Pushing her thick glasses up onto the bridge of her nose, she sees her secret crush, Paul, a few lockers down. Remembering her mom’s […]


Twin Flame or Soulmate

Written by liesel on June 30, 2016

Twin flame or soulmate? It’s not often that I hear someone speaking about relationships in a way that resonates to the absolute core of my being. Recently a friend turned me on to an intuitive, spiritual teacher named Matt Kahn.  I watched his first video and thought, how have I not heard of this guy?! When I heard him talk about […]


Her ex IS her soulmate

Written by liesel on April 3, 2016

Have you ever wondered if your ex could come back and be your soulmate?  I’m often asked if this is possible… My answer is “Yes, but you have to energetically clear the old relationship and you both have to make big shifts for the new relationship to work”. Jo-Ann has that exact story. Her ex is […]


Can you have more than one soulmate?

Written by liesel on July 18, 2013

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Pocatello, Idaho. The question is: “can you have more than one soulmate?”. My answer is controversial in the love world. Many people believe that there is only one love for you out there and that you can’t have more than one soulmate. So if he’s come […]


Can an old lover come back into your life as a new lover?

Written by liesel on June 25, 2013

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Bangladesh. Can an old lover come back in? Is it healthy? Can it work? I’ll tell  you how…   How about you? Have you had an old lover come back into your life? Has it been healthy for you? Do you think it’s possible? Please […]


Valentine’s Day Hangups

Written by liesel on February 6, 2012

Here’s a reprint of an article I wrote for Finer Minds last year. See the original article here. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Until I married my husband, I always dreaded Valentine’s Day. If I were with someone, it never lived up to my expectations…. Valentine’s Day always seemed to highlight the flaws in the relationship – like the […]