The Energetic Matchmaker, Liesel Rigsby
Learn 5 essential tools to making space for love.

Stories that hold you back

Let me tell you about Liz — she’s in an amazing new relationship. Her new man treats her like a queen, brings her flowers, is completely present with her. It’s clear that he’s really into her.

But… Liz is holding her breath waiting for the other shoe to drop.

She’s convinced that this great guy will bolt once he sees her flaws.

Her past heartbreak has crept in and made her scared. So she’s trying to protect herself by staying aloof.

Yet in the past few years, Liz has been on a soul journey, unraveling her limiting beliefs, shifting her energy and embracing self love like never before.

But still… she’s afraid to trust that this new relationship is a result of all of the inner work she’s done.

She recently reached out to me to help her keep from sabotaging this new love.

How about you, [First Name]?

What do you tell yourself will happen again because it happened before?

What stories do you have about how men will treat you based on past hurts?

Where do you expect your partner to make the same mistakes or be who they were in years past?

The energy on the planet is shifting rapidly right now.

It’s a time of exponential healing if you’re open to doing the inner work.

So… I invite you to write down all of the limiting stories that you’re still holding onto from the past.

They may start like:

I’m always going to be the one who isn’t chosen because…

Men don’t like _____ women like me because…

He’ll never change, he always…

Once you have your list, put it somewhere where you won’t lose it.

In my next post, I’ll share some powerful practices to help you let those past stories go.

Because letting go of your past is essential in creating the future your heart really wants!