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A simple tool to be more magnetic to a man

After the last You & Me on Love on “What to do when he pulls away?”, I decided to share a little more on this topic. In addition to spending more time with you and letting go of the ‘neediness’ that sometimes comes up when he pulls away, it’s important to energetically separate as well. […]


When he needs space…

What to do when he needs space… Today’s You and Me on Love Question comes from Omaha, Nebraska. It’s key when building a relationship. “What do I do when he pulls away?” First off, let’s start with what NOT to do. It’s really important not to get clingy or needy. This will push him further […]


From Masculine to Feminine

Ever feel like you are in masculine ‘get it done’ energy all of the time? Like the to do list in your head never ends? Our culture is so caught up in keeping our minds busy. Always having something to do and think about. And yet if you want to connect with your feminine wisdom […]


It’s my birthday

Tomorrow is my 45th birthday. When I was younger I would throw myself big parties and stretch my birthday out for as long as possible – usually the entire month of January if I could manage it. I am an Aquarian with a Leo rising after all… But for the past several years I’ve spent […]


How to silence your inner critic

When you’re searching for love and haven’t found it yet, the inner critic can get really loud. It’s that voice inside your head that loves to tell you how you’re screwing up. How you’re not pretty enough, smart enough, thin enough… all the things that keep you feeling small and insecure. To make matters worse, when that voice takes control, it often […]


Can you have more than one soulmate?

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Pocatello, Idaho. The question is: “can you have more than one soulmate?”. My answer is controversial in the love world. Many people believe that there is only one love for you out there and that you can’t have more than one soulmate. So if he’s come […]


How to get more from a man

Do you often wonder how to get more from a man? This question for You and Me on Love comes from Dubai. “How do I get a man to invest more in a relationship?”   When you find yourself in a situation where you feel like we are not getting enough from the man you’re dating, it […]


Can an old lover come back into your life as a new lover?

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Bangladesh. Can an old lover come back in? Is it healthy? Can it work? I’ll tell  you how…   How about you? Have you had an old lover come back into your life? Has it been healthy for you? Do you think it’s possible? Please […]


How to be energetically magnetic to Mr. Right

This is the third and final video that I shot with Craig on our ten year wedding anniversary in Bali this past month. In this short video I share an energetic tool to make you more magnetic and connected to the right man. What do you think? Will it work for you? You willing to […]


Radiance… is beauty internal or external?

Here’s the second insight I had while Craig and I were away in the south of Bali celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary. He gave me a compliment that surprised me and made me really think about inner vs. outer beauty. To find out what one (really amazing 😉 quality man finds attractive watch this […]