Maya’s Self Love Story

Over the years I’ve shared inspiring love stories of how couples fell in love. Recently I’ve been feeling called to share stories about women falling in love with themselves. This self love story is from my client Maya. She’s an attorney from the East Coast of the U.S.  Below are excerpts from a recent conversation […]

How to love your body

If you’re like most women you could use some tips on how to love your body more. In fact one study showed that 80% of all American women are dissatisfied with their appearance. 80% of women don’t like their body! And yet when I talk to men about women one of the things they share […]

A simple tool to be more magnetic to a man

After the last You & Me on Love on “What to do when he pulls away?”, I decided to share a little more on this topic. In addition to spending more time with you and letting go of the ‘neediness’ that sometimes comes up when he pulls away, it’s important to energetically separate as well. […]

When he needs space…

What to do when he needs space… Today’s You and Me on Love Question comes from Omaha, Nebraska. It’s key when building a relationship. “What do I do when he pulls away?” First off, let’s start with what NOT to do. It’s really important not to get clingy or needy. This will push him further […]

From Masculine to Feminine

Ever feel like you are in masculine ‘get it done’ energy all of the time? Like the to do list in your head never ends? Our culture is so caught up in keeping our minds busy. Always having something to do and think about. And yet if you want to connect with your feminine wisdom […]

It’s my birthday

Tomorrow is my 45th birthday. When I was younger I would throw myself big parties and stretch my birthday out for as long as possible – usually the entire month of January if I could manage it. I am an Aquarian with a Leo rising after all… But for the past several years I’ve spent […]

How to silence your inner critic

When you’re searching for love and haven’t found it yet, the inner critic can get really loud. It’s that voice inside your head that loves to tell you how you’re screwing up. How you’re not pretty enough, smart enough, thin enough… all the things that keep you feeling small and insecure. To make matters worse, when that voice takes control, it often […]

Can you have more than one soulmate?

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Pocatello, Idaho. The question is: “can you have more than one soulmate?”. My answer is controversial in the love world. Many people believe that there is only one love for you out there and that you can’t have more than one soulmate. So if he’s come […]

How to get more from a man

Do you often wonder how to get more from a man? This question for You and Me on Love comes from Dubai. “How do I get a man to invest more in a relationship?”   When you find yourself in a situation where you feel like we are not getting enough from the man you’re dating, it […]

Can an old lover come back into your life as a new lover?

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Bangladesh. Can an old lover come back in? Is it healthy? Can it work? I’ll tell  you how…   How about you? Have you had an old lover come back into your life? Has it been healthy for you? Do you think it’s possible? Please […]