Author Archives: Liesel


When he needs space…

Written by liesel on April 30, 2014

What to do when he needs space… Today’s You and Me on Love Question comes from Omaha, Nebraska. It’s key when building a relationship. “What do I do when he pulls away?” First off, let’s start with what NOT to do. It’s really important not to get clingy or needy. This will push him further […]


Robin and Phil’s Love Story

Written by liesel on September 17, 2013

Robin and Phil are both artists and met at Robin’s glass studio in San Francisco when Phil came through town to lead a workshop there. She shares about their creative and spiritual (and sexual!) connection. Enjoy the love story… I’ve always been a person who appreciates solitude, but I also had a really strong attachment […]


How to get more from a man

Written by liesel on July 7, 2013

Do you often wonder how to get more from a man? This question for You and Me on Love comes from Dubai. “How do I get a man to invest more in a relationship?”   When you find yourself in a situation where you feel like we are not getting enough from the man you’re dating, it […]


A conversation with 2 bachelors

Written by liesel on April 25, 2013

I was at a party recently at Hubud, which is a really hip happening co-working space here in Ubud, Bali (where I’m living right now). The party was full of creative and interesting people from all over the world. And right at the beginning of the night I met 2 smart, funny and successful single […]


3 Tips to Manifest Love

Written by liesel on August 20, 2012

How to be in Flow and Manifest Love From years of helping people to find their soulmates, I find that women tend to be in one of two states: Flow ~~> Openness, expansiveness and joy  *or*  Resistance ~~> Worry, anxiety and contraction When you’re single and you don’t want to be – it’s easy to get tight and fearful. […]


Another Inspirational LOVE Story

Written by liesel on May 5, 2012

I am working with a private client right now who has a  such a beautiful love story that I asked her if she would share it with you. Here’s Alyssa’s story… I recently began dating a man that I met about 7 years ago.  When I first met him, he was my massage therapist, and […]